More pics the pervs will love

September 10, 2007 at 9:04 am (cellphone porn, MXit, nice girls, pervert, sexist, stupid)

Call me a prude if you want but I am really shocked by this story about kids having sex in malls.I’d heard about it on the radio but though it was one or two (which is bad enough) getting up to mischief. Now it’s the norm rather than the exception.When I was that age I barely knew why boys existed (hmm, could still say that now sometimes), much less that we could get our freak on in a public toilet! And I’m really not that old.

I don’t know what is worse: the fact that they’re having sex in toilets or the fact that they’re distributing it among their friends.

Who has been teaching these kids? Where do they get these ideas from? What happened to getting drunk once so you can achieve rebel status?

I just can’t imagine why girls would do this to themselves. Our reputation is torn to shreds, you lose all self-respect and people will always point and laugh.

We all know there are still double-standards and that the guys will come out as studs and heroes. I’m not saying it’s right but we know that’s how it is and we still have a long way to go before we get rid of that way of thinking.

So knowing this, why would any girl with half a braincell subject herself to this kind of humiliation?



  1. madamm said,

    interesting question Toby…cos everyone is doing it?

  2. Toby Hanks said,

    Sjoe, if that’s the reason then I am loving being the outsider on this one!
    Seriously though – where are their parents, what kind of values do they have?
    I’m not saying the can’t be young and have fun but this oversteps so many boundaries.
    Doesn’t matter if you’re religious or not, you should still have respect for your body, right? These girls are nothing more than prostitute-like objects: there for the pleasure of the men who enjoy watching them.
    I mean, come on, what is in it for these girls, do you think? And why did they start doing it in the first place?

  3. madamm said,

    some people only gain respect for themselves and their bodies much later in life. I remember rumours about girls who gave blowjobs to guys in high school- probably cos it would uplift their status. Who knows.

  4. Toby Hanks said,

    Whaaaaaaaat?! No!!! What kind of girls are we producing here? Shit, on what planet was I living while this went on?

  5. madamm said,

    The planet that made it okay to do things which would make you popular with boys- if that means putting foreign objects in your mouth for fun then that’s what it would be. Here I thought smoking a cigarette was like THE ultimate sin in high school (I didn’t TOUCH the stuff)…but oh no…worse things were going on around me…

  6. Toby Hanks said,

    Cigarettes were the ultimate thing for me too. I didn’t even know what a BJ was back then!

  7. madamm said,

    I had an incredibly naive understanding of it too…

  8. The Divine Miss M said,

    Try living in the UK, this place is a cesspit of underage debauchery. No but seriously, 12/13 year olds having sex and babies and just really have no respect for their bodies what so ever.

    Call me a prude but I didn’t lose my virginity till I was 18! Ok, so I have been a tad bit slutty at times but I now have my head screwed on again and I’d NEVER do something just because everyone else is doing it but I guess that is what it all boils down to isn’t it?

    Has anyone watched that film Thirteen? It kind of shows you exactly what we’re all talking about here, the lengths that teens will go to to fit in 😦

    I hope if I ever have children that I install enough morals, sense and dignity into them that they never end up like this.

  9. madamm said,

    I had an incredibly naive understanding of it too…

  10. madamm said,

    Yes I watched Thirteen…it was hectic…all that cutting!!!

  11. Toby Hanks said,

    I watched it too. It was hectic but I didn’t think kids were really like that. For heaven’s sakes, can’t their moms give them a good bloody beating???!!!

  12. The Divine Miss M said,

    Heeeheeee – no seriously, some kids do end up like that and that film was written by one of the girls and is a kind of autobiography of her teenage years!

  13. tbhanks said,

    Shame, poor girl. I don’t know if I want to ever have kids just in case they turn out like these crazyass ones.

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